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gtabula
May 2nd, 2010, 00:04
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peterpink
May 2nd, 2010, 02:38
I believe you have brilliantly explained what many circumcised men have indicated. Sex was not satisfying and even the ejaculation was not fulfilling.
Great to hear you are now having the experience that was your birthright.
:)
gtabula
May 2nd, 2010, 10:46
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ctrclckws
May 5th, 2010, 03:53
Well, I mean I didn't feel bad because the sex and/or masturbation was bad necessarily, and yes I suffered this during sex too. It was that literally depression would set in, almost like postpartum depression. As soon as I climaxed it was like this cloud of depression would sweep in, sometimes making me feel guilty for having masturbated or having sex, like a sense of "Why do I keep doing this to myself" kind of feeling, and I'd become irate or just pissed off in general.
Been there, done that.
After orgasm, a feeling of "That's it?", where's the magic?
Whether masturbation, oral or vaginal sex, didn't matter.
And then, later on, the wife asking, "I gave you sex/orgasm/etc, why are you cranky?"
HoodedRed
May 5th, 2010, 15:14
I think this is the best thread yet! I've noticed emotional changes since I've started the process in Nov of 2009. It started in April when things started waking up for me. My orgasms started become more intense and my left testicle has woke up and exciting to the right one. Normally it is the right one that gets all fired up. My frenulum is becoming more sensitive and I'm getting I nice little band of skin developing all the way to the tip of my glans.
I have increased thinkness and my head cannot get any bigger than it already is. I've been seeing my Dr for some emotional things that are going on with me
personal/work stress related and getting treatment. He thinks my restoration is fine and to keep on keeping on.
I can pull my skin halfway on my glans with an erection now if it would stay there with out me holding it there :D I kook forward to when i get the money so I can buy a devive from Ron because I feel that I will have more happing gaining. One more thing quick to add: I recommend using a vitmin E supplement in pill form, I'd say start off with 400 EIU increase to 800 or 1000. However I am not Dr so please do some research and may be consult
a Dr like I did. I have also read postings on here about what size pants to go and I even got a reply which was very helpful. I have since stepped about a size larger on both pleats and flat fronts and its hard to see the device while working. I wear it for about 11-12 hours a day and then wash it it up. I hope some of this helps. Happy restoring.
Also there are groups out there to go to but it is always harder to talk face to face, after all we are talking about a private part of our body and it's so much easier to do over a forum.
HoodedRed
May 5th, 2010, 15:28
I think this is the best thread yet! I've noticed emotional changes since I've started the process in Nov of 2009. It started in April when things started waking up for me. My orgasms started become more intense and my left testicle has woke up and exciting to the right one. Normally it is the right one that gets all fired up. My frenulum is becoming more sensitive and I'm getting I nice little band of skin developing all the way to the tip of my glans.
I have increased thinkness and my head cannot get any bigger than it already is. I've been seeing my Dr for some emotional things that are going on with me
personal/work stress related and getting treatment. He thinks my restoration is fine and to keep on keeping on.
I can pull my skin halfway on my glans with an erection now if it would stay there with out me holding it there :D I kook forward to when i get the money so I can buy a devive from Ron because I feel that I will have more happing gaining. One more thing quick to add: I recommend using a vitmin E supplement in pill form, I'd say start off with 400 EIU increase to 800 or 1000. However I am not Dr so please do some research and may be consult
a Dr like I did. I have also read postings on here about what size pants to go and I even got a reply which was very helpful. I have since stepped about a size larger on both pleats and flat fronts and its hard to see the device while working. I wear it for about 11-12 hours a day and then wash it it up. I hope some of this helps. Happy restoring.
Also there are groups out there to go to but it is always harder to talk face to face, after all we are talking about a private part of our body and it's so much easier to do over a forum.
PS: I wanted to add one more thing. Think about what we are all doing and the goal we wish to receive. This isn't some body pierce, tatatoo, this is permanent body change(why would you to cut it gain). May be look into a support group if one is in your area here is the link for NORM. I have one in my area I just haven't called them yet.
http://norm.org/coord.html
Been there, done that.
After orgasm, a feeling of "That's it?", where's the magic?
Whether masturbation, oral or vaginal sex, didn't matter.
And then, later on, the wife asking, "I gave you sex/orgasm/etc, why are you cranky?"
If you search around online, you'll find a few guys asking about the same thing - a feeling of self consciousness or even negativity following sex or masturbation.
I suppose you could consider it a part of the refractory period. The sudden change in mood after ejaculation could have something to do with whatever happens in the brain when the sympathetic nervous system is suddenly stimulated like that. I'm no psychologist here, but it probably has an effect on whatever part of the mind controls judgment.
Personally, I remember having that awkward feeling right after ejaculating back during my teens for a while after I started masturbating. I would describe it more as having been able to think clearly all of a sudden after being so horny all that mattered was getting off. Over time, my orgasms got better with practice (at first I didn't feel much more than the ejaculation itself), and I would experience more pleasure than any other feeling.
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