Multiple Orgasms for Men

[FalseReality]

Hey so I have been doing this research on ways to improve my orgasm. I wanted to make up for the missing parts I'll never get back if I could. Just to supplement my restoration. I ran a crossed something that I found years ago but never bothered trying. This exercise known as kegel exercises is supposed to help separate orgasms from ejaculation. In doing so a man can prolong his orgasms for as long as he likes.

They help strengthen the PC muscles which make up the pelvic floor. You can orgasm then squeeze them which makes the body believe that you didn't ejaculate so your body remains in a state of arousal. Also each further orgasm becomes stronger. You can find out what the PC muscle is by stopping a stream of urine, that is the PC muscle. All it takes is a few squeezes (reps) in about 10 sets at a time. Then do that several times a day. Eventually stopping the ejaculation response becomes easier, and less frustrating.

My intact friend claims that he can do them and tried to teach me, he described almost the exact same thing as above, but he found it out all on his own. He says the 2nd orgasm is usually more intense than the first as well.

I'm a bit curious as to why I don't see many men at all doing them here, we are all so caught up in how our orgasms are weakened. Why not learn to strengthen our orgasm to make up for the loss of fine touch sensations.

[AnonS5]

Well this is quite informative as I did hear that intact guys have a greater control over when they want to orgasm or not but I never knew this was the way to do so with such great results and like a build up.

[greg_b]

My understanding is what these men do is learn to seperate thier orgasm from their ejaculation. Some have good success at this, some do not. Some feel it is better, others feel it is just another tool in the toolbox.

Regards

[jninja]

I can do it accidentally. I usually edge when I masturbate and sometimes I do it just right where I orgasm but don't ejaculate and then just keep going. I don't know how I do it but I can do it.

[admin]

I can do it accidentally. I usually edge when I masturbate and sometimes I do it just right where I orgasm but don't ejaculate and then just keep going. I don't know how I do it but I can do it.

When we have the time and Alice is in the mood for multiples, I can sort of have multiples too. But I experience it as the opposite of what the "gurus" on the subject say. That is, I most definitely ejaculate multiple times (with what I would call mini orgasms) before having a major orgasm. I need to keep still and just rub her to work through these without losing control. As I say I'm clearly squirting something slick into her each time. The physical ecstacy with the final one is not exactly the ultimate pleasure possible, but the chance to have the other ecstatic spells and the rush Alice seems to get makes it worth it, and the final is very much a release, and a finale.

[1Taoist]

Multiple O's for men has to do with transferring stimulus from the prostate to the tailbone, where it can enter the spine. This is done not just by flexing the pelvic floor muscles, but by relaxing them in the presence of stimulus centered in the prostate, and moving the mind to the tailbone instead of outward (like into a vagina, ass, or mouth).

The internal O feels different, as Ron said, and they can build up to where the eventual release isn't as cathartic as is the simple outward squeeze. Learning to have internal O's that are not prostate-centered is a very profound exercise. Think of it as turning your whole body into a prostate, so the actual one expands and sends out waves of pleasure to the brain, rather than the outward recipient.

[Trick'rTreat]

I bought the book "The Multi-Orgasmic Man" several years ago while I was still in high school, and began practicing as soon and as often as I could. Within a few weeks, I could easily achieve multiple orgasms by "slamming on the brakes" right before I ejaculated. Then, one Friday night, it happened...

I had stayed up late, as I usually did on weekends. My hands had found their way down to my penis, as they often did daily. From midnight till nearly four in the morning, I jacked off, and had three non-ejaculatory orgasms. I decided to go for one more ejaculatory orgasm, then go to sleep. I probably should have stopped at three.

I had been working for about thirty minutes on my last orgasm and was literally seconds away from finishing. That's when my dad opened the door. I was lying naked on top of the covers, with one hand wrapped around my penis, the other hand instinctivly scrambling for the remote to turn off the porn DVD, all next to a bottle of lotion and a box of tissues on the nightstand. (My reaction was similar to this...:eek:, but red with embarrassment.) He had to work early that morning, had seen that my light was on, and decided to come in and remind me about something that suddenly had no relevance whatsoever.

He had walked in on me before while I was masturbating, but I had always been able to stop, cover up, and come up with a ridiculous answer for what I was really doing, before he saw anything. This incident, however, proved much more difficult to explain... That's my experience with multiple orgasms. They're a lot of fun, but keep your damn ears open!

[admin]

Barging in is just rude. My wife does it to my daughters and it bugs me.

[FalseReality]

Multiple O's for men has to do with transferring stimulus from the prostate to the tailbone, where it can enter the spine. This is done not just by flexing the pelvic floor muscles, but by relaxing them in the presence of stimulus centered in the prostate, and moving the mind to the tailbone instead of outward (like into a vagina, ass, or mouth).

The internal O feels different, as Ron said, and they can build up to where the eventual release isn't as cathartic as is the simple outward squeeze. Learning to have internal O's that are not prostate-centered is a very profound exercise. Think of it as turning your whole body into a prostate, so the actual one expands and sends out waves of pleasure to the brain, rather than the outward recipient.

That is pretty interesting, I have read about spreading these orgasmic feelings to other parts of the body, I don't know if I have achieved this yet. I think the closest I came to acheiving a multiple orgasm though was trying to relax and do like a reverse kegel which kind of pushed away that feeling to ejaculate. You can definitely tell ejaculation and orgasm are not the same.

I bought the book "The Multi-Orgasmic Man" several years ago while I was still in high school, and began practicing as soon and as often as I could. Within a few weeks, I could easily achieve multiple orgasms by "slamming on the brakes" right before I ejaculated. Then, one Friday night, it happened...

I had stayed up late, as I usually did on weekends. My hands had found their way down to my penis, as they often did daily. From midnight till nearly four in the morning, I jacked off, and had three non-ejaculatory orgasms. I decided to go for one more ejaculatory orgasm, then go to sleep. I probably should have stopped at three.

I had been working for about thirty minutes on my last orgasm and was literally seconds away from finishing. That's when my dad opened the door. I was lying naked on top of the covers, with one hand wrapped around my penis, the other hand instinctivly scrambling for the remote to turn off the porn DVD, all next to a bottle of lotion and a box of tissues on the nightstand. (My reaction was similar to this...:eek:, but red with embarrassment.) He had to work early that morning, had seen that my light was on, and decided to come in and remind me about something that suddenly had no relevance whatsoever.

He had walked in on me before while I was masturbating, but I had always been able to stop, cover up, and come up with a ridiculous answer for what I was really doing, before he saw anything. This incident, however, proved much more difficult to explain... That's my experience with multiple orgasms. They're a lot of fun, but keep your damn ears open!

Haha yay for multiples, what a shame your dad didn't even think what you might be up to in your room before he went in uninvited. The pc muslce squeeze is still a bit awkward to me but I'm trying to get used to it.

[1Taoist]

Try as you approach orgasm push out your lower belly as if to expand it, and contract the tailbone (butt muscles). Pushing out the lower abdomen helps relax the prostate and the feeling will autonomously go to where there is contraction (tailbone).

Eventually you train this to happen on it's own. You're building a neuropathway. The true kegels don't contract the lower abdomen, only the floor. And from there you pull up the back-floor (anus). This leads to contracting the tailbone. Eventually then, you develop the ability to contract from inside with fascia rather than external muscles.

To develop this, as counterintuitive as it sounds, you must relax your mind and the chi, which under sexual pressure will "squeeze" the torso and it's organs. This leads to the urge and trigger of ejaculation- which is the filling of the prostate with essence from all the organs. This is what they consider "loss". Instead, by relaxing this, the essence fills the center column (spine). From there it feeds the brain.

Think of all the organs in the torso as being connected to the universe celestially. Invisible chords connect to them. Universal energy (difficult to feel, so don't try) is brought in there to the body. Ordinarily that energy is let out sexually thru ejaculatory orgasm. Learn to reverse this and feed that energy to the spine instead, all thru the principle of relaxation, and it fills the brain, which is a sort of a wonder machine of non-local powers.

If you do several inward orgasms you can then ejaculate and end up with a zero net loss, because of that essence thing- you took in and you let out. But to avoid the loss let's you build hidden essence (once again, not something you will "feel", you will just "know"). These processes are strange, though, because according to the celestial movements sometimes you need a quick physical release and sometimes you need a slow build. That's why after some ejaculations you feel tired and depressed, some you feel like you could go again. And for no tangible reason.

[Scarz]

Multiple O's for men has to do with transferring stimulus from the prostate to the tailbone, where it can enter the spine. This is done not just by flexing the pelvic floor muscles, but by relaxing them in the presence of stimulus centered in the prostate, and moving the mind to the tailbone instead of outward




Taoist that explanation is really helpful in analysing the transfer of energy in a more physical way.

When I first accustomed myself to the orgasms you describe, I was learning about and visualising my body as the Chakras as described in Hindu and Buddhist tantra practices.

I did find it hugely empowering and greatly rewarding when one can actually "feel" these zones throughout the body, and by visualising sexual energy from the prostate "travel" and build through each of the Chakras (I used to feel it as an overwhelming tingling heat), until eventually reaching the Third Eye and then circulating the whole body.

Having that mental and physical openness and relaxation that facilitates this movement of energy is amazing and the male body is just as amazing and capable as experiencing levels of arousal and orgasm that the female body can.

[kayla]

"Having that mental and physical openness and relaxation that facilitates this movement of energy is amazing and the male body is just as amazing and capable as experiencing levels of arousal and orgasm that the female body can."


AGREED! That's all I really want with Corey, for him to experience what I do. That's part of why I'm an intactivist, why I'm on this site, why I talk to people. Its all about letting go and just feeling as much as you can in life.



Also Thanks 1Taoist for the tips!



Kayla

[Jupiter]

"Having that mental and physical openness and relaxation that facilitates this movement of energy is amazing and the male body is just as amazing and capable as experiencing levels of arousal and orgasm that the female body can."


AGREED! That's all I really want with Corey, for him to experience what I do. That's part of why I'm an intactivist, why I'm on this site, why I talk to people. Its all about letting go and just feeling as much as you can in life.



Also Thanks 1Taoist for the tips!



Kayla

Not sure about this. Women go crazy during sex. Sometimes totally out of control. I think women won the sex lottery. It seems like they have a capacity for pleasure that men can't even comprehend.

[Scarz]

Jupiter, that's not true. I said both male and female bodies have the capacity to experience mind-blowing arousal and sexual sensations.

So many women can't orgasm, usually due to psychological blockers or some kind of issue in the bedroom with their partner. The difference in sexual makeup of males and females is that male ejaculation and the refractory period completely use the sexual energy gained during the activity beforehand. Sexual energy in females can build and circulate after orgasm and keep building to higher levels.

This can be done in males too, but the sexual energy has to be harnessed and worked with more instead of all focus being on penile sensation and imminent ejaculation. Orgasm and ejaculation are separate. If you can get the arousal level high and have the sexual energy moving around the entire body, and not just the penis and prostate, full-body orgasms are easy and very much in appearance to a female type of orgasm. (Notice I say in appearance because the two cannot be compared exactly).

I am a woman in outward appearance (body feminised by estrogen, breasts) but I am male, so I have a penis and a prostate gland. I can orgasm from my nipples. I can orgasm when fully clothed and just by really getting lost in emotional arousal with my partner. Same with penetrative sex and when my penis is included too, my orgasms are full bodied and I shake all over - like many females do. It can last seconds to minutes to the entire encounter and radiate for a while after.

It's not that women "won the sex lottery" as such, their bodies are just better programmed for that I believe due to the difference in refractory period. What it's about is having that mind/body/emotional connection and not just being of the opinion of "erection->wank->ejaculate->done". It's about appreciating every small sensation, every touch anywhere on the body, and being really connected with yourself, and especially with a partner you're close to.

[Jupiter]

Jupiter, that's not true. I said both male and female bodies have the capacity to experience mind-blowing arousal and sexual sensations.

So many women can't orgasm, usually due to psychological blockers or some kind of issue in the bedroom with their partner. The difference in sexual makeup of males and females is that male ejaculation and the refractory period completely use the sexual energy gained during the activity beforehand. Sexual energy in females can build and circulate after orgasm and keep building to higher levels.

This can be done in males too, but the sexual energy has to be harnessed and worked with more instead of all focus being on penile sensation and imminent ejaculation. Orgasm and ejaculation are separate. If you can get the arousal level high and have the sexual energy moving around the entire body, and not just the penis and prostate, full-body orgasms are easy and very much in appearance to a female type of orgasm. (Notice I say in appearance because the two cannot be compared exactly).

I am a woman in outward appearance (body feminised by estrogen, breasts) but I am male, so I have a penis and a prostate gland. I can orgasm from my nipples. I can orgasm when fully clothed and just by really getting lost in emotional arousal with my partner. Same with penetrative sex and when my penis is included too, my orgasms are full bodied and I shake all over - like many females do. It can last seconds to minutes to the entire encounter and radiate for a while after.

It's not that women "won the sex lottery" as such, their bodies are just better programmed for that I believe due to the difference in refractory period. What it's about is having that mind/body/emotional connection and not just being of the opinion of "erection->wank->ejaculate->done". It's about appreciating every small sensation, every touch anywhere on the body, and being really connected with yourself, and especially with a partner you're close to.

Well I HOPE you're right, and I'm actually working on that assumption. BUT, I'm still skeptical. I've seen some "real" porn and there doesn't appear to be attempt by the women to have a mind/body/emotional connection and these women just go nuts while some guy pounds away.

[Jupiter]

By "real" porn do you mean camera in couples' bedrooms down the street type thing :o ?

Don't be skeptical, I don't think it will do you any good, nor will looking at someone else's "amazing orgasm" and wanting to experience the same. Just focus on you and your own experiences, and how you relate and connect to your body.

If you have expectations in your mind of what you should be experiencing, or what you want to experience to feel satisfied then it's going to cloud your potential.

It's a frustrating thing but it's almost as if the more you want and will for those kind of feelings the harder they will be to achieve. The more you let go of goals and expectations and time limits and disappointment, the more you will be able to just appreciate the feelings you can feel and allow them to intensify and fill your body with relaxation. :)

Xtube, things like that. Homemade porn.