There is no such thing as justice

[man_of_hapa]

I can't even look at the Wikipedia article about circumcision without crying and then wanting to kill someone. How do I turn this into positivity?

I've never gotten off to a blow job in my life. My girlfriend tries her hardest but I feel bad because it's not that she's not good or not trying... This may sound petty but all I want is to be able to get off to blow jobs, I think they are the greatest thing ever, but I can only get off to intercourse...

I'm pissed that this was taken away from me, and now it's like a burdern that I have to carry. I hate it when people say intact guys give more pleasure to their partner as well as feel more pleasure, now I feel like it's my own fault for being damaged goods.

I had suicidal thoughts last week, something that hasn't happened to me in years.

[vicousg42]

well, i can definitely sympathize. prior to beginning restoration, id never experienced an ejaculation from another person. at best, id jack off to finish myself off, and the result feels like an average sneeze. not an orgasm. but shortly after i began retaining and doing manual restoration, id day about a month and a half, or two months... i finally came with a woman. still doesn't appear to come close to what women call an orgasm, but apparently it doesn't matter, since an orgasm for a man is simply an ejaculation...

i hope there's hope.

[Dasher]

I can't even look at the Wikipedia article about circumcision without crying and then wanting to kill someone. How do I turn this into positivity?

I've never gotten off to a blow job in my life. My girlfriend tries her hardest but I feel bad because it's not that she's not good or not trying... This may sound petty but all I want is to be able to get off to blow jobs, I think they are the greatest thing ever, but I can only get off to intercourse...

I'm pissed that this was taken away from me, and now it's like a burdern that I have to carry. I hate it when people say intact guys give more pleasure to their partner as well as feel more pleasure, now I feel like it's my own fault for being damaged goods.

I had suicidal thoughts last week, something that hasn't happened to me in years.

The Wikipedia circumcision article is a fraudulent mess, but is it any worse than the knowingly false propaganda put out by the U.S. Public Health Service and the Centers for Disease Control in favor of circumcision? Brainwashing people to support circumcision is the American way. It's what separates us from other countries, and makes us different -- for better or worse.

Count your blessings. First of all, at least you have a girlfriend, number one. Second, she seems to be sincerely trying to please you sexually -- many of them would never bother to try. And third, at least you can get off during intercourse -- many circumcised guys can't, like me most of the time for example.

Man_of_hapa, please try to tamp down those suicidal thoughts. Because we need to have you with us in the struggle to protect baby boys from being butchered, so they will never have to go through life handicapped like you and I were forced to. Baby boys are the last frontier of civil rights victims in America. They're still fair game in an unfair nation. We've got to try to change that. It's an uphill struggle, because powerful interests who make lots of money from circumcision will fight us, and we've got the Jews crying foul too. But what's right is right.

Please stay in the game for everyone's sake.

[peterpink]

Wikipedia has been hijacked by the pro-circ faction. Stay away from pro-circ sites, they only give you negative emotions while you are still grieving. Stick with the supportive sites. e.g. http://www.circumstitions.com/

[AnonS5]

Wikipedia has been hijacked by the pro-circ faction. Stay away from pro-circ sites, they only give you negative emotions while you are still grieving. Stick with the supportive sites. e.g. http://www.circumstitions.com/

Wikipedia article is edited by Circumfetishist Jake Waskett. Circumfetishists get off from circumcision, genital , and sexual mutilation, etc.

[Majestic Maleness]

Anger first is natural. In time you will learn to accept facts as facts and not be angry about them. The most important thing is taking steps to better your situation: restoring. Once you have a comfortable restoring routine going it might do you good to take a break from the forums and not think about circumcision until you reach acceptance.

You might ask, how can I not think about circumcision while undergoing restoring? Simply don't. Accept that that's the way you are and are in the process of growing a foreskin.

Acceptance will come and anger will go in time.

[Dvorak]

Heh,

I'd say the entire reason I'm restoring is so I can cum quickly and more often. I don't enjoy that sex can take forever, and my wife has 3-5 orgasms. Sometimes I can't get off period. I'm only 27!

I also can't cum from blowjobs. Honestly my fingers feel more then my dick does, that was how I knew something was wrong.

The suicidal thoughts, yeah I've had those. You realize there is pretty much nothing you can do to experience sex the way it was supposed to be. Worse, your not gonna get any acceptance from someone who's been circumcised. They've been raised without it, so they don't miss it.

Our entire culture is sex-negative. We can't even have a discussion about this, except on these forums. At least its something.

Hey, don't get so down. At least you have some options now. 30 years ago, you'd be circumcised, but you wouldn't know whats wrong. At least you can buy a device, spend a few years, and get SOMETHING back. (this is what I tell myself)

Doing something is better then doing nothing.

[man_of_hapa]

Heh,

I'd say the entire reason I'm restoring is so I can cum quickly and more often. I don't enjoy that sex can take forever, and my wife has 3-5 orgasms. Sometimes I can't get off period. I'm only 27!

I also can't cum from blowjobs. Honestly my fingers feel more then my dick does, that was how I knew something was wrong.

The suicidal thoughts, yeah I've had those. You realize there is pretty much nothing you can do to experience sex the way it was supposed to be. Worse, your not gonna get any acceptance from someone who's been circumcised. They've been raised without it, so they don't miss it.

Our entire culture is sex-negative. We can't even have a discussion about this, except on these forums. At least its something.

Hey, don't get so down. At least you have some options now. 30 years ago, you'd be circumcised, but you wouldn't know whats wrong. At least you can buy a device, spend a few years, and get SOMETHING back. (this is what I tell myself)

Doing something is better then doing nothing.

Yeah I think my dad is that guy 30 years ago. The fool was circumcised even though we're not religious, and had me circumcised because he didn't know any better, or didn't give a shit.

Anyway thanks for commenting, yeah it is pretty great that we have this forum to talk about it. Thank goodness for the Internet!

[man_of_hapa]

The Wikipedia circumcision article is a fraudulent mess, but is it any worse than the knowingly false propaganda put out by the U.S. Public Health Service and the Centers for Disease Control in favor of circumcision? Brainwashing people to support circumcision is the American way. It's what separates us from other countries, and makes us different -- for better or worse.

Count your blessings. First of all, at least you have a girlfriend, number one. Second, she seems to be sincerely trying to please you sexually -- many of them would never bother to try. And third, at least you can get off during intercourse -- many circumcised guys can't, like me most of the time for example.

Man_of_hapa, please try to tamp down those suicidal thoughts. Because we need to have you with us in the struggle to protect baby boys from being butchered, so they will never have to go through life handicapped like you and I were forced to. Baby boys are the last frontier of civil rights victims in America. They're still fair game in an unfair nation. We've got to try to change that. It's an uphill struggle, because powerful interests who make lots of money from circumcision will fight us, and we've got the Jews crying foul too. But what's right is right.

Please stay in the game for everyone's sake.

Hey Dasher, thank you so much for your supportive post. You really gave me some perspective there. I will fight the good fight. =)

[AnonS5]

And don't worry dude there will be justice for us:

1) Santa Monica and San Francisco may ban circumcision: www.mgmbill.org http://www.nytimes.com/2011/06/05/us/05circumcision.html www.wholebabyrevolution.com

The san fran and santa monica circumcision ban bills will bridge the way for us in courts to ban this or help people when suing based on the constitution and the bans to show it is a human rights violation like FGM as MGM is.

2) With restoration and foregen we can take charge of our bodies and get justice

3) Intactivism we can end this and the best therapy for me is preventing others from going through what I did and fighting to show others and myself what was done to us is an evil human rights violation.

We are not alone look at these intactivists that protest every year and every day sometimes in the DC genital integrity march, events or in their own town:

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There is hope dude. THERE WILL BE JUSTICE! :) Watching these vids and seeing these pictures always make me feel better. I hope they do for you too.

[Bluegameroyon]

You're damn right there isn't.