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View Poll Results: What is the level of support from your partner?
5 - Very supportive - helps with efforts 52 27.37%
4 - agrees that it's a good idea 45 23.68%
3 - Doesn't care one way of the other 49 25.79%
2 - thinks it is silly 27 14.21%
1 - says why bother, and tries to get you to stop 17 8.95%
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Old December 21st, 2010
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5, intact boyfriend is very supportive of it
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Old December 21st, 2010
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I envy you restoring men with supportive partners you can discuss this (and sex) with.
If it helps, we envy you being able to conduct the experiment to find out what a partner thinks of more slack when they have no idea about foreskin to start with.
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Old January 4th, 2011
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Hmm does grabbing my shaft skin with his fist, pulling it forward, and sucking the foreskin forward during oral sex count as a manual tugging technique?

I originally rated my partner a 4 but I must say, I'm a little torn. I told him about a month and a half ago and his position has evolved quite a bit. He started out as neutral to the concept but supportive as a partner - i.e. "if you want this I'll of course allow you to do it". Since though, he's gradually increased his curiosity and concern. He's asked to see me putting on my device and was relieved that it didn't seem as torturous as he had imagined. He was also relieved that it didn't interfere with our sex life (all the more reason to use a device rather than a tape method). and his concerns about odor quickly went away. As my sensitivity and shaft length have increased from the added protection and looser skin, he's even kidded about restoring himself. Whether he wants to is another story and really up to him

No, instead what I discovered, is that I was the one that had more issues trying to keep my restoring efforts concealed even after mustering up the strength to come out and tell him about it.

Overall, I would say honesty and openness wins out on this one
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Old February 19th, 2011
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My partner is uncut and is very supportive. He's even commented on the changes he's noticed, and supports my efforts to do this. I don't do my manual around him but I'm not sure it would be an issue.

We are both supportive of someone who had to be circumcised because of severe phimosis, who tried various options and eventually exhausted them and was circumcised. He's apparently happy, and I'm not odd about it just because I want a foreskin.

On a related note, it's really nice to be able to see an uncut one as my restoration effort continues, for comparison.
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I just started dating a guy who wants to restore. I am going to show him the ropes and help him choose a device. We are going to compare growth notes.
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Old May 30th, 2011
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3, he dont suport me. it is the same for him, as i be happy with it i have to do it. but i cant realy talk about it with him.
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Old May 31st, 2011
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She doesn't know. We just started dating, I don't wear devices when I'm with her and the topic hasn't really come up.
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3, he dont suport me. it is the same for him, as i be happy with it i have to do it. but i cant realy talk about it with him.
That's sad. This should be between both individuals in a relationship.
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Old June 1st, 2011
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I just started dating a guy who wants to restore. I am going to show him the ropes and help him choose a device. We are going to compare growth notes.
This is sweet and the way it should be! I'm excited! Best wishes,
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Old June 2nd, 2011
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That's sad. This should be between both individuals in a relationship.
Yes, it would be great if he ask sometimes how it is going, but he doesn't. We are together and it is a part of my body thats kind of him too. But he is not realy interested in what is happening with it. And whats happend with it. I geass he dont realy get the point, and find it good the way it is.
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