I have just seen a sorry post by Mincan. I just want to tell him that it made me cry - not to make him feel guilt, but to let him know that I/we care about him and every other person that has been hit by this situation in life. We are also affected by what others *do* in our group. Defenseless children are our reasons to get a grip on this and march forward and unite.
I hope you pull-through so you can get back in the hot-seat and help others with their restoration.
Peace out! We are thinking about you.