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Old August 3rd, 2012
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Default Bringing up circumcision on dates

I can look back on this date I had a year and a half ago. On our first date, the woman was telling me about circumcising her son. This was before I started restoring and became informed about circumcision. I remember thinking it was weird that she was telling me about it. Looking back, she may have been testing the waters to gauge my reaction. I did end up having sex with that woman several times, and she told me later how she thought intact dicks were gross. Yeah, she was one of those. I know now that I could never date a woman who has this mentality.

Anyway, I had a first date last night. I knew ahead of time that she was a single mother with a young son. I am not comfortable enough to bring up the circumcision topic around most women, but I had a window last night that I could not resist. The date told me that she works as a lab tech for a doctor who performs vasectomies. She told me that the typical guy who gets a vasectomy is in his mid 30's to early 40's. Then the following convo ensued:
Her: If the man is under 30, the doctor will turn him away and not perform vasectomy.
Me: Oh yeah? Why is that?
Her: A lot can change over the years. He tells them to come back when they are older, more informed, etc. It's surgery.
Me: It's funny how a doctor would have qualms about performing this procedure on a consenting adult 29 year old male, but many doctors have NO problem cutting the tips off 2 day old babies' dicks who can not consent.
Her: I didn't have my son circumcised. I researched it, and my ex and I agreed.
Me: He will thank you later.

Then I had a different date tonight, and I found another window.
Her: I was talking to this one guy, but I saw his photo on sex offender database so I never went on date with him.
Me: Oh yeah? What did he do?
Her: I'm not sure.
Me: Maybe he was giving little boys circumcisions.
Her: Oh my god! There are rabbis who do that. They suck the blood from the baby's penis. This one baby died.
Me: Yes. I'm familiar with those sick bastards. You should do something about this (she is attorney).
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Old August 4th, 2012
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Default Re: Bringing up circumcision on dates

Haha, funny stories. Thanks for sharing.

Reminded me of this:
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Old August 5th, 2012
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Default Re: Bringing up circumcision on dates

This is good.

Personally, I'd want to find out her view after sex had happened, preferably not before, since she'll likely be invested in you.

Two reasons I can think of,

If she's pro-cutting but willing to be educated, she'll be more receptive.

If she's an outright mutilation apologist then rejecting her on these grounds will have way more impact on her emotionally.
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