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[cobra]

I used to joke that I was "trisexual", meaning I would "tri" anything.

Unfortunately, there is a stigma that accompanies bisexuality for men. Not so much for women. Our culture actually seems to encourage bisexuality for women. Who doesn't like to watch two hot chicks kissing and nibbling on each others poonies? But for men, it's still a taboo thing. So much so that many would have you believe that bisexuality doesn't even exist, that bi guys are either confused straight men or gay men afraid to come out of the closet. Even gay men try to propagate this lie.

The truth is, human sexuality is more of a scale than simply a black and white thing. Yes, there are 100% straight men and 100% gay men, but they are the exception, not the rule. Most people reside in the gray area in between, and there is nothing wrong with that-- only that it seems to threaten those who have labeled themselves totally straight or totally gay. Why? I don't know. Fear, perhaps.

I don't know how to advise you to hook up, as I am married and monogamous. With all the disease and sexually fucked-up people out there, I don't know if I would even encourage such a thing. Why not just make friends and see if anything develops there naturally? I really don't advocate emotionless sexual hookups and anonymous one-night-stands. They are spiritually unfulfilling and possibly even dangerous.

[1Taoist]

I agree with the above.

There is also an aspect of psychology cultivated by such activity, and perhaps simply sexuality in general carries with it an underlying component of creation that gives rise to the identity things. For example, what I mean is people who engage in acts will be inevitably shaped by them.

I would go as far as to say bi-sexuality doesn't exist, and as such neither does gay or straight. If the furthest doesn't exist, neither can the others. What's my evidence for this? Google the actress Cynthia Nixon and find a pic of her and her lesbian partner. You might have trouble finding it- you'll just find a lot of pix of her with some guy- until you realize that's HER PARTNER. It's the most WTF thing you'll ever see. You'll say "this aint two women, this is a man and a woman". But its not. This couple alone establishes gay identity as a myth, a non-existence. Theyre just a variation on the only thing there is: people.

You can find this with guys, too. Couples where one is clearly a woman. And you mostly won't see two "women-men" together, you'll see a masculine and a fem. Two bears together is a whole different conversation. That's just a friendship that rubs penis'. :-D

Sexual experimentation is fine, but cobra is right- you'll pay a price. Most of the time it ain't worth it.

Sometimes, people who experiment with homosexuality, if they're not really of that exclusive tendency, may find unexpectedly some of the psychological baggage that comes with it- they can get "confused", start feeling like they might BE gay when they're not. This is because the negative sensation, the taboo force, is potent and if you're not of sufficient constitution mentally you can find yourself with mental STD's. That comes from the same principle that STD's come from: none of us knows all the time exactly what we're gettin into when we have sex with "someone we don't know".

Unfortunately, there's no mental condom.

There is an aspect of appeal, allure, to what we haven't done or don't know, haven't tasted, is new. And that's it's trap, too. We do need to have fun but we need to proceed with caution, and really ask ourselves if we are on stable enough ground. We can have fun, but only with a certain amount of restraint. That's a trickier thing to navigate than we ever think.

Identies don't exist until suddenly they get hold. And once they get hold, it's hard to shake them off.